14 Signs That a Girl Likes You.

Most women find it hard to approach the guys. It can be perceived as desperate, slutty or too aggressive.

 

While Some guys maybe thrilled about it, to some it’s such a turn off because men always want to be the ones in control, the ones with the courage to make a move and win a girl’s heart.

However, Rejection Stinks, so it becomes hard for a guy to make a move to a girl especially when he is not sure whether the girl likes him or not.

Here are some signs that will help you figure out whether a girl likes you or not:

 

#1.She laughs at all  your jokes even the not so funny ones

She really wants to be supportive and is showing interest in what you have to say. Doesnt want you to feel like you are making a fool of yourself.

#2.Plays with her hair while she is talking to you

Girls do this unknowingly while trying to be cute in order to get your attention

#3.Touches you accidentally

She has no problem with proximity and finds it comfortable to be touchy.

#4.Enjoys your Company

Always wants to be in your presence.

#5.Talks to her Family and Friends about You 

If she wants important people in her life to know about you,then she really really likes you

#6.Asks a lot of Questions

This shows that she is interested in knowing more about you. Asks you about your girlfriend,family, even about things that dont matter.

#7.Maintains Eye contact

If she looks at you in the eye while talking to you then she likes you. Go for it.

#8.She Bites/Licks her Lips

 This is a sure one.

 

#9.Passes by you repeatedly

She is looking for you to notice her,the way she has dressed. So she does like you.

#10.She responds Fast to your texts 

She even initiates phone conversations,texts you right back and calls you back whenever she missed your call.

#11.Always willing to hang out with you

She always says yes to you whenever you invite her to hang out with you.

#12.She talks to you about things that seem personal

She is open to you about whats going on in her life meaning that she doesnt mind you being in her life.

#13.Posts pictures of you two hanging out on social Media 

This means that she is proud of you and wants to show you off.

#14.She agrees with everything You say

She is supportive and always on your side. Agrees with most, if not all of your thoughts and suggestions.

If you have noticed most of these signs then go ahead and make your move before its too late. If not then watch out for them.

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If you live in fear of the future because of what happened in your past,you'll end up losing what you have in the present~Unknown

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Why Weddings Are The Worst

I am a realist, and blunt. I choose not to bury my head in the sand and act like I dont see whats going on around me. I choose to see things the way they are. 

Its every girls dream to have a big glamourous,beautiful and expensive church wedding.  But am not every girl. I think that weddings are so overrated.

They take months of stressful planning and are very expensive.Moreover, I wouldn’t want to slip awkwardly out of an overpriced car, in an overpriced dress,which I will only get to wear on one day, then walk down the aisle in front of hundreds of people some of whom I barely know.

I recently happened to watch a My dream wedding,a show on Ktn channel, I don’t usually watch those but this one was particularly interesting. The groom was very open on the fact that he couldn’t have afforded such a big wedding seeing that he was a security guard who happened to have been earning Ksh 6000 per month, and the bride was a house help for this rich family that happened to have sponsored the wedding whose cost was Ksh 540,000. Interesting right?

A wedding is about the bride and groom not everyone else. I can only imagine the conflict that comes about when the bridesmaids want different dresses, no one is happy with the menu, friends want to invite their friends that the couple don’t even know about and all your sisters think they should be the maid of honour. I dont want to be part of such kind of drama.

It is not supposed to be a show off to impress a bunch of people some of whom you don’t even know, or care about.

The whole point of it is to make a promise of love and commitment to your spouse.

Weddings make people forget why they are throwing them in the first place, they become blinded.

So If and when that time comes, I would grab my husband’s hand and run down to the Attorney General’s office, then spend some of the money on an incredible honeymoon, and invest the rest. But that’s just me, my opinion.

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Optimism is a happiness magnet.if you stay positive,good things and good people will be drawn to you~Mary lou Retton

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11 Qualities of A Highly Desirable Woman

1.She is Confident

Confidence is a feeling of self-assurance arising from one's appreciation of one's own abilities or qualities.She believes in herself and you can see it from the way she carries herself, a confident woman is an attractive woman. No one is perfect but she knows her flaws and is still comfortable in her own skin 

2.She Good communicator

She knows when and how to speak to others. She is also a good listener who watches her language and chooses her words carefully.

3.She does not seek attention

She doesn’t feel the need to take 1001 selfies and post them on social media in order to be validated. She always seeks the right kind of attention, the kind that will make her life better.

4.She has a passion, Hobbies and goals in life

This is the kind of woman who sets goals and works towards achieving them. She also knows what she wants and works hard to get it without having to be pushed or pressured. She is a hard worker and has a passion for life.

5.She Avoids Gossip

She doesn’t find value in talking about other people because she knows that it’s not beneficial in the long run. So she avoids gossiping at all costs.

6.She knows how to control her emotions

This is the kind of woman who doesn’t throw tantrums whenever she wants to. She understands that everyone is different and as much as life has its ups and downs, she always manages to keep her smile and control her temper.

7.She is dependable and Honest

This is the type of woman who you can always depend on. She keeps her word and so people find it easy to open up to her. She is quite a charmer

8.She is Smart

Not just a high IQ. But she knows what is going on around her, she can easily have a meaningful conversation with anyone without feeling left out.

9.She takes care of herself

She knows how to clean up, be smart and she always takes care of her self-health wise. She also puts an effort when it comes to what to wear and how to wear it. She is simple but classy.

10.She doesn’t chase after people

She knows that she deserves better, so she doesn’t waste her time and energy chasing after other people who are obviously not interested in her. She knows her value, so instead of chasing after others she focuses on making herself better.

11.Her life does not revolve around her Relationship

She has a lot going on in her life, so she doesn’t immerse herself completely into a relationship, she takes time to catch up with her friends and family just so that it doesn’t seem like her happiness depends on her relationship.

Are you a highly desirable woman?

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11 Simple Ways to Live a Happier Life

The most important thing is to enjoy your life-to be happy-it’s all that matters~ Audrey Hepburn

Happiness has to be created from within, because when you learn to be happy in the present you will be able to handle the setbacks that will come while searching for a better future. You will not be frustrated when things don’t turn out the way you want to because you have other sources of happiness that do not depend on your success.

Once you learn to be happy with what you have, your family, your health and your purpose in life then you will have no regrets. You will have lived your life to the fullest because you didn’t need a million-dollar car or house to live a fulfilled life.

 Here’s how to live a simple happy life;

1. Maintain a healthy lifestyle.

Regular exercise, eating healthy meals whilst drinking plenty of water will help you in maintaining a healthy weight, prevent chronic diseases and ultimately make you feel good about yourself. When you feel good in the inside, you will look good on the outside and be more confident.

2. Build and maintain strong relations with your Friends and Family

Friends and family form a support system that you can always count on during the hardest of times. It is therefore important for you to stay in touch and spend time with them as much as you can.

3. Read relevant books and set Realistic Goals

The importance of reading relevant books cannot be over emphasized. Read a book every day. Books have wisdom and knowledge which can help you improve and become creative in your own unique way. So read as much as you can but don’t forget to set realistic goals and focus on achieving them, this will give you a purpose in life.

4. Get out of your comfort zone

Life begins at the end of your comfort zone therefore do not be afraid to step out of it no matter how scared you are, because being scared is a sign that you are about to do something brave. So face your fears and dare to do that which you are afraid of and see just how good it feels. The worst that can happen is that you will learn from the experience whether good or bad

5. Avoid negative people

Surrounding yourself with negative people drains your energy. They literally just bring you down no matter how strong and positive you might think you are. It is best to avoid such people and be with the ones who make you feel like you can move mountains.

6. Commit to your personal improvement

Endeavour to be fully committed to your self-improvement journey. You might be slow but steady which is all that matters. Take one day at a time but make sure to be consistent and persistent

7. Get rid of your bad habits

It is not as easy as it sounds. Getting rid of bad habits and replacing them with good ones takes time but it’s totally worth it. At the end of the day you will be able to have good relationships with those who are around you.

8. Stay true to yourself

If you can’t change something change the way you think about it and most importantly accept that which you cannot change. Acknowledge your strengths and work on your weaknesses. This will give inner peace and contentment.

9. Take charge of your life

You always have a choice. You have the right to choose that which you feel is good/right for you. You can choose to decide not to let other people’s opinion of you cloud your judgement. You can choose to be happy by focusing on the good things in life. The list is endless. Make the right choice by taking charge of your life.

10. Develop a great morning routine

Try waking up early say 5:00 am, Stretch and exercise for a few minutes. Instead of looking at your emails and worrying about how the day will be, be grateful for everything that has worked out so far. Read something motivational or meditate then get ready for work. This routine works wonders at least it has for me.

11. Don’t be too hard on yourself.

Finally, don’t be too hard on yourself let things flow naturally the way they should. Take the much-needed breaks. Do not be so fixated on something so much so that you become desperate and miserable. Hope for the best and learn to let go sometimes especially when you have done all that you are required to do.

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How To Get Over Failure And Stand Up Again

“I've missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed."~ Michael Jordan

Michael Jordan is the greatest Basketball player of all times. He failed so many times before he became successful. But the bottom line is that he became successful in the end.

Most of us have the wrong mentality about success. We assume that it’s supposed to be easy, without obstacles, without disappointments and setbacks but that’s not possible. The truth is success takes passion, patience and persistence.

Michael must have gone to bed feeling so bad for the missed shots. I can’t imagine the devastation that comes with feeling like you have let other people down, especially when they trusted you.

He however woke up the next morning and trained harder just so that he can become better. His passion for basketball gave him the strength to keep going in the midst of failure. Otherwise he would have ended up to be an ordinary man, and not a legend. He would have become one of those people who stop trying because they think that life is unfair.

What would you have done?

Let me guess, you will start feeling sorry for yourself, then stop trying. You will think that life is unfair to you or maybe you have bad luck. Ultimately you will leave it all together then settle for mediocrity.

Do you really want to be successful? Then;

1.Don’t quit

Most people fail because they give up in the face of failure, just before they succeed. But if you Keep trying no matter how many times you fail, you will definitely make it.

2.Learn from your mistakes

Always learn from your mistakes, don’t dwell on them just take the lesson and move on. What you learn from the previous failure is what will help you in the next attempt.

3.Stay positive

       Believe in the beauty of your dreams by staying positive and surrounding yourself with people who encourage you to achieve your goals

4.Find your passion

When you do what you love there is no amount of frustration that can make you give up on it. It’s that passion that will keep you from giving up whenever you fail.

Life doesn’t get easier, nor forgiving but the more times you fail, the more resilient you become and the closer you get to succeeding, so whatever you do don’t quit. 

You can cry about it, and feel as bad as you want to, but Keep doing it. Try to always do it better than before, be creative and most importantly learn from your mistakes.

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