11 Qualities of A Highly Desirable Woman

1.She is Confident

Confidence is a feeling of self-assurance arising from one's appreciation of one's own abilities or qualities.She believes in herself and you can see it from the way she carries herself, a confident woman is an attractive woman. No one is perfect but she knows her flaws and is still comfortable in her own skin 

2.She Good communicator

She knows when and how to speak to others. She is also a good listener who watches her language and chooses her words carefully.

3.She does not seek attention

She doesn’t feel the need to take 1001 selfies and post them on social media in order to be validated. She always seeks the right kind of attention, the kind that will make her life better.

4.She has a passion, Hobbies and goals in life

This is the kind of woman who sets goals and works towards achieving them. She also knows what she wants and works hard to get it without having to be pushed or pressured. She is a hard worker and has a passion for life.

5.She Avoids Gossip

She doesn’t find value in talking about other people because she knows that it’s not beneficial in the long run. So she avoids gossiping at all costs.

6.She knows how to control her emotions

This is the kind of woman who doesn’t throw tantrums whenever she wants to. She understands that everyone is different and as much as life has its ups and downs, she always manages to keep her smile and control her temper.

7.She is dependable and Honest

This is the type of woman who you can always depend on. She keeps her word and so people find it easy to open up to her. She is quite a charmer

8.She is Smart

Not just a high IQ. But she knows what is going on around her, she can easily have a meaningful conversation with anyone without feeling left out.

9.She takes care of herself

She knows how to clean up, be smart and she always takes care of her self-health wise. She also puts an effort when it comes to what to wear and how to wear it. She is simple but classy.

10.She doesn’t chase after people

She knows that she deserves better, so she doesn’t waste her time and energy chasing after other people who are obviously not interested in her. She knows her value, so instead of chasing after others she focuses on making herself better.

11.Her life does not revolve around her Relationship

She has a lot going on in her life, so she doesn’t immerse herself completely into a relationship, she takes time to catch up with her friends and family just so that it doesn’t seem like her happiness depends on her relationship.

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What's All The Fuss With Women Wearing Make-up?

This issue has been bugging me for a while. I have to address it, as a woman who is comfortable in her own skin and as a human being who understands that everyone has a choice.

Women always want to feel beautiful. Everyone wants to, you should see the guys sweat it out in the gym for the damn packs. Then once they have them, they start walking around like they own the world. Why is that?  

A friend of mine recently made a comment that made me want to scratch my eyes out of anger. I was baffled with his level hypocrisy. “You women wear so much makeup, you can be with a woman for 3 months without knowing what she really looks like” So he said. The same guy who still drools over some celebrity crush who wears 100 layers of make-up. 

 Let a woman be a woman, let her put on that weave if she wants to, let her put on make-up and adorn herself in jewelry if she wants to.

I am not pro wearing too much make up or not wearing any make up at all, but am for doing what makes you feel beautiful and confident. 

It’s all a matter of choice, and you can do whatever the hell you feel like doing;

1.If you are uncomfortable showing the world all your flaws, then by all means hide them.

2.if you feel beautiful just the way you are then leave it like that.

3. If you feel that you need to enhance your natural beauty then do it.

Let a woman be a woman, let her put on that weave if she wants to, let her put on make-up and adorn herself in jewelry if she wants to.

Cut her some slack and if you don’t like it just leave her alone then go on with your futile search of some perfect girl that you will never find.

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How To Build Your Self-Confidence In 6 Easy Ways

Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without Hope and Confidence~ Heller Keller

Studies have shown that self-confident people are more successful in all areas of life. And successful people have a high level of self-confidence.

However, being confident is not easy especially when you have always considered yourself as an introvert. Up until I finished college I was always this shy, reserved girl who couldn’t look anyone in the eye, or air her opinion because I was too afraid. Too afraid of being judged or being wrong.

Then I got out of college a fresh graduate. I had to get a job to fend for myself and fulfill my needs 

So I had to learn to be someone else, a confident person, an extrovert. I had to be convincing, to sale my skills in a way that shows just how useful I can be.

Getting out of my comfort zone wasn’t so easy, but with time I found myself starting conversations with strangers, making friends and approaching accomplished people during in big events.


 Reasons why you need to be More Confident;

• Confidence is more attractive than good looks.
• With confidence you will rebound better after failure.
• You will also be more persistent in the face of obstacles.
• Confidence in your skills and capabilities will make you approach difficult tasks as challenges to be dealt with rather than as threats to be avoided. 
• Confident people set themselves challenging goals and maintain a strong commitment to them.
• You will have a positive outlook which will produce personal accomplishments, reduce stress and lower the risk of depression.

 Building your self Confidence

#1.Stop comparing yourself to others.
If you have to do this, then do it across the board. If she is more good looking, then you might be smarter. You never know,but since you dont have all the facts,spare yourself the trouble.

#2.Change your Beliefs
How you see yourself often manifests in how you react to other people’s actions towards you. You really don’t need to second guess yourself. No one thinks you are inferior or you have bad taste in fashion, it’s just you. See the best in your self.

#3.Practice and Impress your subconscious mind
Create a mental picture of you as a more confident person. I do this while preparing for an interview the day before. I see myself maintaining eye contact, with a firm voice and a straight sitting posture, I even do it in the mirror. So Practice, practice, practice. It always works.

#4.Write down your positive traits
Are your kind? Generous? Honest? Or a good listener? Write down these great attributes this is what makes you awesome. And don’t forget to remind yourself each time you are in front of other people who make you look inferior.

#5.Understand that other people are just as human as you are
No one is special. They maybe more accomplished but they have made mistakes too, they have failed, they have been rejected or disappointed before. They may even have been where you are before so they totally understand. You don’t need to be perfect.

#6. Stop being a people pleaser
Its really hard to please everyone,moreover trying to makes you really unattractive. What someone else thinks is sorely there business,stop trying too hard.You got this.

#7.Change what you can
If you feel that you have gained some weight and you dont like it,then try loosing it.Eat healthy
exercise regularly and drink plenty of water.
If you feel that you lack some skills that others have then by all means acquire those skills.
Just dont forget to accept that which you cant change, like the fact that you are too short or too tall.I mean just embrace it,accept it and love yourself.


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12 Signs of a Man that Loves and Appreciates you

“Actions Speak louder than words” This is one statement that most women seem to forget when it comes to relationships.

Men don’t easily express their feelings; I guess it’s just in their nature. Most of them think it’s a sign of weakness or it’s a 'girl' thing. On the other hand, women expect men to declare their love and when they don’t it leads to confusion.

Does he love Me? Or Not?

As a woman you will meet with different types of men;

Those who will tell you they love you without even knowing you, (They are the ones with an ulterior 

motive);

Those who wont say they love you and treat you like they don’t(The jerks);

Those who wont say they love you but treat you with love( They are hard to read);  

and finally those who say the three words and treats you with love(He is a keeper though rarely 

found).

So how can you know if the guy you're with truly loves you?

 

1.He respects you

When a guy respects you enough to ask for your opinion in matters that concern him; He treats you well, respects your opinions, ideas and decisions. Then he is a keeper. This shows that he is considerate of your feelings and contribution in his life

2.He makes you feel good about yourself

A guy who loves you will make you feel comfortable in your own skin, he will encourage you to be confident and believe in yourself. He will not never compare you to someone else or push you into being someone you are not.

3.He is intelligent, wise and growth oriented

He will encourage you to do the things that you love and those that will help you be better in life. He  also comes up with solutions to impending problems and advises you on how to deal with them.

4.He does not run away from problems

When a guy faces all his problems without feeling the need to hide or be in denial then he is in love. He knows the importance of communication to a relationship that’s why he knows when something is not right and tries to fix it.

5.He Loves your good traits but also accepts your flaws

He knows that you are not perfect and loves you just because, Flaws and all. He appreciates you for who you are, the good and the bad.

6.He is committed and determined not to mess up the relationship

When he has falling for you, the risk of losing you becomes his number one fear. He will be concerned about how you will perceive him whenever he keeps close contact with other women. Then create some boundaries just so that he won’t mess up the relationship.

7.He notices everything about you, even the little ones

He notices things about you that others don’t, whether it’s a new hairstyle, when you’re upset, how you interact with others, how your mind works, how you process emotions and how you express yourself. He also sees everything you want to be, and he’ll let you know when you’re going the wrong direction. He notices everything.

8.He is not afraid to apologize when he is wrong

 A guy that is in love with you knows when he is in the wrong, and is ready to admit it and take responsibility for his actions. He even goes out of his way to do little things to ask for forgiveness from you because he is man enough swallow his pride, and wishes never to repeat.

9.He compromises

We all have work or school or other commitments so we are all busy. When a man falls for you, he will willingly make time to hang out with you.

10.He contacts you first most of the time

If a guy is thinking about you during your absence, it’s only natural that he will be drawn to contacting you, because guys fall in love in a woman’s absence. If he doesn’t then it’s “out of sight, out of mind” watch out.

11.He will want his friends and family to meet you

A man who is in love will be proud to be with you. He will introduce you to family and friends, hold your hand in public, bring you to family get-togethers, company because he wants to show you off.

12.He Brings up the future and you are in it

He doesn’t have a problem talking about his future and you are part of it? Then keep him he is a good one.

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