12 Signs of a Man that Loves and Appreciates you

“Actions Speak louder than words” This is one statement that most women seem to forget when it comes to relationships.

Men don’t easily express their feelings; I guess it’s just in their nature. Most of them think it’s a sign of weakness or it’s a 'girl' thing. On the other hand, women expect men to declare their love and when they don’t it leads to confusion.

Does he love Me? Or Not?

As a woman you will meet with different types of men;

Those who will tell you they love you without even knowing you, (They are the ones with an ulterior 

motive);

Those who wont say they love you and treat you like they don’t(The jerks);

Those who wont say they love you but treat you with love( They are hard to read);  

and finally those who say the three words and treats you with love(He is a keeper though rarely 

found).

So how can you know if the guy you're with truly loves you?

 

1.He respects you

When a guy respects you enough to ask for your opinion in matters that concern him; He treats you well, respects your opinions, ideas and decisions. Then he is a keeper. This shows that he is considerate of your feelings and contribution in his life

2.He makes you feel good about yourself

A guy who loves you will make you feel comfortable in your own skin, he will encourage you to be confident and believe in yourself. He will not never compare you to someone else or push you into being someone you are not.

3.He is intelligent, wise and growth oriented

He will encourage you to do the things that you love and those that will help you be better in life. He  also comes up with solutions to impending problems and advises you on how to deal with them.

4.He does not run away from problems

When a guy faces all his problems without feeling the need to hide or be in denial then he is in love. He knows the importance of communication to a relationship that’s why he knows when something is not right and tries to fix it.

5.He Loves your good traits but also accepts your flaws

He knows that you are not perfect and loves you just because, Flaws and all. He appreciates you for who you are, the good and the bad.

6.He is committed and determined not to mess up the relationship

When he has falling for you, the risk of losing you becomes his number one fear. He will be concerned about how you will perceive him whenever he keeps close contact with other women. Then create some boundaries just so that he won’t mess up the relationship.

7.He notices everything about you, even the little ones

He notices things about you that others don’t, whether it’s a new hairstyle, when you’re upset, how you interact with others, how your mind works, how you process emotions and how you express yourself. He also sees everything you want to be, and he’ll let you know when you’re going the wrong direction. He notices everything.

8.He is not afraid to apologize when he is wrong

 A guy that is in love with you knows when he is in the wrong, and is ready to admit it and take responsibility for his actions. He even goes out of his way to do little things to ask for forgiveness from you because he is man enough swallow his pride, and wishes never to repeat.

9.He compromises

We all have work or school or other commitments so we are all busy. When a man falls for you, he will willingly make time to hang out with you.

10.He contacts you first most of the time

If a guy is thinking about you during your absence, it’s only natural that he will be drawn to contacting you, because guys fall in love in a woman’s absence. If he doesn’t then it’s “out of sight, out of mind” watch out.

11.He will want his friends and family to meet you

A man who is in love will be proud to be with you. He will introduce you to family and friends, hold your hand in public, bring you to family get-togethers, company because he wants to show you off.

12.He Brings up the future and you are in it

He doesn’t have a problem talking about his future and you are part of it? Then keep him he is a good one.

Is he the right guy for you?