Does Playing Hard To Get Work?

Dating in the 21^st century is a mess, everyone is scared of commitments. 

Mostly for us ladies, we like to playing these stupid games that irritate me to the core. You want to wait for an hour before replying to a text just so he thinks that you are not so available. It’s these kind of games that make men afraid of committing.

They think it makes them seem hotter, creates exclusivity and some even say that it’s the rule of supply and demand but I seem to differ.

 They dont have the confidence to go for what they want without creating unneccessary drama.

Those who do that have low self-esteem, and have no idea what they want when it comes to relationships. They dont have the confidence to go for what they want without creating unneccessary drama.

If you are a person of high value and class, you will naturally command respect without having to count the hours until its acceptable to return a call or a text. 

Moreso, when you really like someone and there is the connection, you don’t need to have a goal in mind just hit it off ,let things happen and see where it takes you. He /She might just turn out to be the best thing that happened to you.

I honestly think that if you make someone work too hard for you, once they get you and realise that you are just another girl or guy they will drop you like a hot potato because they will know that you were not worth the chase.

So if you find someone that you don’t click with, never force it to be something that wasn’t meant to be. Don’t waste their time, just let them know(nicely) that you don’t like them without leading them on.

I don’t see the need to make things so dramatic, hard and ridiculous for there to be a relationship. A healthy relationship is calm and pleasant not a wild goose chase.

What do you think?

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