12 Undeniable Ways To Tell When He is Cheating

Its better to be alone than in bad company~Anonymous

 

Romantic relationships are an essential part of life, but it makes no sense when it becomes deceitful.

Why do people cheat on their spouses?

Why are they not honest to the people they claim to love?

These are the questions that keep ringing in my head while I write this article. These questions make me so afraid of getting married and having kids with someone who will later on loose interest in what we have and treat me like I dont matter.

I mean gone are the days when people used to chase after others, when they obviously know they are not wanted. Why not just be honest?

Mostly its men who cheat, some actually think that it makes them more manly and they can even brag about it to their friends about how he wasn’t caught. What they don’t know is that women are sharp, they were created with a sixth sense that makes them know, even when they don’t say it. They just know.

However, I find cheating unnecessary If you don’t want to be with someone tell them, it will hurt but it won’t kill them. If you find someone better, more attractive or smarter then by all means tell them. 

While Some women just know when they are being cheated on, others see the signs but overlook them and most of them have no clue. 

Here are the obvious ways to tell when he is cheating on you.,

1.You think it

If your gut instinct is telling you that he is, then there is a high chance that he is cheating on you. Listen to it.

2.He starts spending long hours at work

He starts coming home late, has late night meetings then that’s a red flag he’s probably spending time with someone else

3.He creates or changes the password on his phone and other digital devices

He becomes secretive and all of a sudden needs his privacy

4.He gets so nervous when try to use his Phone and snatches it from your hand

5.He becomes overly nice, charming and sweet.

 He is probably just feeling guilty and wants to appease his conscience or cover up.

6.He gets too conscious of his looks, 

He becomes sensitive to his dressing,spends lots of hours grooming and starts shaving every day when he never used to.

7.He has mood swings 

He lashes at you and starts arguments from trivial issues. He is trying to find a reason to leave you.

8.When you confront him about it he turns the tables on you and tries to make you think that you are crazy and insecure.

9.He takes too long to answer your texts.

He is a bad communicator and answers your long texts with a one-word answer texts. Meanwhile he is texting other girls.

10.He has many unsaved numbers on his phone. 

11.He carries his phone everywhere he goes even in the bathroom. Then spends a ridiculous amount there with the excuse that he was answering his mails

12.He puts his phone on airplane mode.

He doesn’t want to receive any suspicious call when you are around.

If you have seen most of the above signs then he is definitely cheating, if it’s less than three then maybe you are wrong. You just need to talk to him and clear the air.
 

What to do if He is Cheating

1    # 1.Go through his things like texts, check his Emails-It may be hard to find any evidence by going through his phone because chances are that he is good at hiding it. But you got to try.Do it smartly though,you might be wrong and it will create trust issues,that may subotage your relationship.

     #2  Follow Up-Follow him around and see where he goes when he says he is working late, this would be easier if he claims to be at work because that way you could give him a surprise drop by.

3   #3 Confront Him-Ask him about it especially-After collecting all the evidence then ask him about it. Make it seem like it would be nice if he confessed to what was going on.  If he has no reasonable explanation, then he is a cheater.  Why would you want to be with such kind of a man? Just leave because he will never change and you deserve better

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11 Qualities of A Highly Desirable Woman

1.She is Confident

Confidence is a feeling of self-assurance arising from one's appreciation of one's own abilities or qualities.She believes in herself and you can see it from the way she carries herself, a confident woman is an attractive woman. No one is perfect but she knows her flaws and is still comfortable in her own skin 

2.She Good communicator

She knows when and how to speak to others. She is also a good listener who watches her language and chooses her words carefully.

3.She does not seek attention

She doesn’t feel the need to take 1001 selfies and post them on social media in order to be validated. She always seeks the right kind of attention, the kind that will make her life better.

4.She has a passion, Hobbies and goals in life

This is the kind of woman who sets goals and works towards achieving them. She also knows what she wants and works hard to get it without having to be pushed or pressured. She is a hard worker and has a passion for life.

5.She Avoids Gossip

She doesn’t find value in talking about other people because she knows that it’s not beneficial in the long run. So she avoids gossiping at all costs.

6.She knows how to control her emotions

This is the kind of woman who doesn’t throw tantrums whenever she wants to. She understands that everyone is different and as much as life has its ups and downs, she always manages to keep her smile and control her temper.

7.She is dependable and Honest

This is the type of woman who you can always depend on. She keeps her word and so people find it easy to open up to her. She is quite a charmer

8.She is Smart

Not just a high IQ. But she knows what is going on around her, she can easily have a meaningful conversation with anyone without feeling left out.

9.She takes care of herself

She knows how to clean up, be smart and she always takes care of her self-health wise. She also puts an effort when it comes to what to wear and how to wear it. She is simple but classy.

10.She doesn’t chase after people

She knows that she deserves better, so she doesn’t waste her time and energy chasing after other people who are obviously not interested in her. She knows her value, so instead of chasing after others she focuses on making herself better.

11.Her life does not revolve around her Relationship

She has a lot going on in her life, so she doesn’t immerse herself completely into a relationship, she takes time to catch up with her friends and family just so that it doesn’t seem like her happiness depends on her relationship.

Are you a highly desirable woman?

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How To Get Over Failure And Stand Up Again

“I've missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed."~ Michael Jordan

Michael Jordan is the greatest Basketball player of all times. He failed so many times before he became successful. But the bottom line is that he became successful in the end.

Most of us have the wrong mentality about success. We assume that it’s supposed to be easy, without obstacles, without disappointments and setbacks but that’s not possible. The truth is success takes passion, patience and persistence.

Michael must have gone to bed feeling so bad for the missed shots. I can’t imagine the devastation that comes with feeling like you have let other people down, especially when they trusted you.

He however woke up the next morning and trained harder just so that he can become better. His passion for basketball gave him the strength to keep going in the midst of failure. Otherwise he would have ended up to be an ordinary man, and not a legend. He would have become one of those people who stop trying because they think that life is unfair.

What would you have done?

Let me guess, you will start feeling sorry for yourself, then stop trying. You will think that life is unfair to you or maybe you have bad luck. Ultimately you will leave it all together then settle for mediocrity.

Do you really want to be successful? Then;

1.Don’t quit

Most people fail because they give up in the face of failure, just before they succeed. But if you Keep trying no matter how many times you fail, you will definitely make it.

2.Learn from your mistakes

Always learn from your mistakes, don’t dwell on them just take the lesson and move on. What you learn from the previous failure is what will help you in the next attempt.

3.Stay positive

       Believe in the beauty of your dreams by staying positive and surrounding yourself with people who encourage you to achieve your goals

4.Find your passion

When you do what you love there is no amount of frustration that can make you give up on it. It’s that passion that will keep you from giving up whenever you fail.

Life doesn’t get easier, nor forgiving but the more times you fail, the more resilient you become and the closer you get to succeeding, so whatever you do don’t quit. 

You can cry about it, and feel as bad as you want to, but Keep doing it. Try to always do it better than before, be creative and most importantly learn from your mistakes.

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