11 Qualities of A Highly Desirable Woman

1.She is Confident

Confidence is a feeling of self-assurance arising from one's appreciation of one's own abilities or qualities.She believes in herself and you can see it from the way she carries herself, a confident woman is an attractive woman. No one is perfect but she knows her flaws and is still comfortable in her own skin 

2.She Good communicator

She knows when and how to speak to others. She is also a good listener who watches her language and chooses her words carefully.

3.She does not seek attention

She doesn’t feel the need to take 1001 selfies and post them on social media in order to be validated. She always seeks the right kind of attention, the kind that will make her life better.

4.She has a passion, Hobbies and goals in life

This is the kind of woman who sets goals and works towards achieving them. She also knows what she wants and works hard to get it without having to be pushed or pressured. She is a hard worker and has a passion for life.

5.She Avoids Gossip

She doesn’t find value in talking about other people because she knows that it’s not beneficial in the long run. So she avoids gossiping at all costs.

6.She knows how to control her emotions

This is the kind of woman who doesn’t throw tantrums whenever she wants to. She understands that everyone is different and as much as life has its ups and downs, she always manages to keep her smile and control her temper.

7.She is dependable and Honest

This is the type of woman who you can always depend on. She keeps her word and so people find it easy to open up to her. She is quite a charmer

8.She is Smart

Not just a high IQ. But she knows what is going on around her, she can easily have a meaningful conversation with anyone without feeling left out.

9.She takes care of herself

She knows how to clean up, be smart and she always takes care of her self-health wise. She also puts an effort when it comes to what to wear and how to wear it. She is simple but classy.

10.She doesn’t chase after people

She knows that she deserves better, so she doesn’t waste her time and energy chasing after other people who are obviously not interested in her. She knows her value, so instead of chasing after others she focuses on making herself better.

11.Her life does not revolve around her Relationship

She has a lot going on in her life, so she doesn’t immerse herself completely into a relationship, she takes time to catch up with her friends and family just so that it doesn’t seem like her happiness depends on her relationship.

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How To Get Over Failure And Stand Up Again

“I've missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed."~ Michael Jordan

Michael Jordan is the greatest Basketball player of all times. He failed so many times before he became successful. But the bottom line is that he became successful in the end.

Most of us have the wrong mentality about success. We assume that it’s supposed to be easy, without obstacles, without disappointments and setbacks but that’s not possible. The truth is success takes passion, patience and persistence.

Michael must have gone to bed feeling so bad for the missed shots. I can’t imagine the devastation that comes with feeling like you have let other people down, especially when they trusted you.

He however woke up the next morning and trained harder just so that he can become better. His passion for basketball gave him the strength to keep going in the midst of failure. Otherwise he would have ended up to be an ordinary man, and not a legend. He would have become one of those people who stop trying because they think that life is unfair.

What would you have done?

Let me guess, you will start feeling sorry for yourself, then stop trying. You will think that life is unfair to you or maybe you have bad luck. Ultimately you will leave it all together then settle for mediocrity.

Do you really want to be successful? Then;

1.Don’t quit

Most people fail because they give up in the face of failure, just before they succeed. But if you Keep trying no matter how many times you fail, you will definitely make it.

2.Learn from your mistakes

Always learn from your mistakes, don’t dwell on them just take the lesson and move on. What you learn from the previous failure is what will help you in the next attempt.

3.Stay positive

       Believe in the beauty of your dreams by staying positive and surrounding yourself with people who encourage you to achieve your goals

4.Find your passion

When you do what you love there is no amount of frustration that can make you give up on it. It’s that passion that will keep you from giving up whenever you fail.

Life doesn’t get easier, nor forgiving but the more times you fail, the more resilient you become and the closer you get to succeeding, so whatever you do don’t quit. 

You can cry about it, and feel as bad as you want to, but Keep doing it. Try to always do it better than before, be creative and most importantly learn from your mistakes.

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How To Build Your Self-Confidence In 6 Easy Ways

Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without Hope and Confidence~ Heller Keller

Studies have shown that self-confident people are more successful in all areas of life. And successful people have a high level of self-confidence.

However, being confident is not easy especially when you have always considered yourself as an introvert. Up until I finished college I was always this shy, reserved girl who couldn’t look anyone in the eye, or air her opinion because I was too afraid. Too afraid of being judged or being wrong.

Then I got out of college a fresh graduate. I had to get a job to fend for myself and fulfill my needs 

So I had to learn to be someone else, a confident person, an extrovert. I had to be convincing, to sale my skills in a way that shows just how useful I can be.

Getting out of my comfort zone wasn’t so easy, but with time I found myself starting conversations with strangers, making friends and approaching accomplished people during in big events.


 Reasons why you need to be More Confident;

• Confidence is more attractive than good looks.
• With confidence you will rebound better after failure.
• You will also be more persistent in the face of obstacles.
• Confidence in your skills and capabilities will make you approach difficult tasks as challenges to be dealt with rather than as threats to be avoided. 
• Confident people set themselves challenging goals and maintain a strong commitment to them.
• You will have a positive outlook which will produce personal accomplishments, reduce stress and lower the risk of depression.

 Building your self Confidence

#1.Stop comparing yourself to others.
If you have to do this, then do it across the board. If she is more good looking, then you might be smarter. You never know,but since you dont have all the facts,spare yourself the trouble.

#2.Change your Beliefs
How you see yourself often manifests in how you react to other people’s actions towards you. You really don’t need to second guess yourself. No one thinks you are inferior or you have bad taste in fashion, it’s just you. See the best in your self.

#3.Practice and Impress your subconscious mind
Create a mental picture of you as a more confident person. I do this while preparing for an interview the day before. I see myself maintaining eye contact, with a firm voice and a straight sitting posture, I even do it in the mirror. So Practice, practice, practice. It always works.

#4.Write down your positive traits
Are your kind? Generous? Honest? Or a good listener? Write down these great attributes this is what makes you awesome. And don’t forget to remind yourself each time you are in front of other people who make you look inferior.

#5.Understand that other people are just as human as you are
No one is special. They maybe more accomplished but they have made mistakes too, they have failed, they have been rejected or disappointed before. They may even have been where you are before so they totally understand. You don’t need to be perfect.

#6. Stop being a people pleaser
Its really hard to please everyone,moreover trying to makes you really unattractive. What someone else thinks is sorely there business,stop trying too hard.You got this.

#7.Change what you can
If you feel that you have gained some weight and you dont like it,then try loosing it.Eat healthy
exercise regularly and drink plenty of water.
If you feel that you lack some skills that others have then by all means acquire those skills.
Just dont forget to accept that which you cant change, like the fact that you are too short or too tall.I mean just embrace it,accept it and love yourself.


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How to Start a Free Blog in Under 2 minutes (With Pictures)

Everyone has something to offer, be it in your career, personal life or otherwise and blogging is one of the ways you can share your knowledge, ideas, thoughts with others while making money online.

People however start blogging for various reasons aside from financial ones but it always comes down to making money while you do what you love. For instance, I know of a few Kenyan bloggers who make more than Ksh 200,000 per month from blogging and self-made millionaires’ like M.Farouk Radwan the founder of 2knowmy self who started his blogging website with less than $50.

What is a blog?

A blog is an informational website which is regularly updated and run by one or more people. It is a platform where you can share expertise, knowledge and ideas inform of pictures videos or literature.

Here are the simple 10 steps;

 #Step 1

Decide what to blog about.

The content you are planning to share to the audience is the most important factor. Choose your content carefully having the target audience in mind.

#Step 2

Choose a blogging platform.

There are various platforms, here are the best Top five platforms that you can use;

1.WordPress-The most popular and Free

2.Tumblr- Easy and Free

3.Blogger-User friendly, Free and longest serving platforms.

4.Medium-Polished experience

5.Livejournal-Encourages communal interaction

Here is how to start your own blog on Blogger, and you will get it up and running in a few seconds;

#Step 3

Go to www.blogger.com on your web browser of choice.

#Step 4

Sign in using your Google Account to get started or create one if you don’t have it.

#Step 5

Click New

#Step 6

Select a “Blog title” and an available URL for your blog.

Blogger will automatically check the availability of the Url. If its not available you can add numbers or more letters.

 

 #Step 7

Choose a template, which will act as the basic design. You can always change it later if it doesn’t suit your needs. Then Click Create.

 #Step 8

Create new blog posts, edit posts, and edit pages from under the new post tab column

#Step 9

The title of your post goes in the text box next to “Title”. Then the post goes below that In the text box.

Then select “Save Now” to save your post as draft  if you are still working on it, “Preview” to preview your post before publishing to your blog, or “Publish Post” to publish your post directly to your newly created blog.

#Step 10

Re-Design your blog to fit your needs

Happy Blogging.

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