Friday, 26 August 2016

11 Qualities of A Highly Desirable Woman




1.She is Confident
Confidence is a feeling of self-assurance arising from one's appreciation of one's own abilities or qualities.She believes in herself and you can see it from the way she carries herself, a confident woman is an attractive woman. No one is perfect but she knows her flaws and is still comfortable in her own skin 

2.She Good communicator
She knows when and how to speak to others. She is also a good listener who watches her language and chooses her words carefully.

3.She does not seek attention
She doesn’t feel the need to take 1001 selfies and post them on social media in order to be validated. She always seeks the right kind of attention, the kind that will make her life better.

4.She has a passion, Hobbies and goals in life
This is the kind of woman who sets goals and works towards achieving them. She also knows what she wants and works hard to get it without having to be pushed or pressured. She is a hard worker and has a passion for life.

5.She Avoids Gossip
She doesn’t find value in talking about other people because she knows that it’s not beneficial in the long run. So she avoids gossiping at all costs.

6.She knows how to control her emotions
This is the kind of woman who doesn’t throw tantrums whenever she wants to. She understands that everyone is different and as much as life has its ups and downs, she always manages to keep her smile and control her temper.

7.She is dependable and Honest
This is the type of woman who you can always depend on. She keeps her word and so people find it easy to open up to her. She is quite a charmer

8.She is Smart
Not just a high IQ. But she knows what is going on around her, she can easily have a meaningful conversation with anyone without feeling left out.

9.She takes care of herself
She knows how to clean up, be smart and she always takes care of her self-health wise. She also puts an effort when it comes to what to wear and how to wear it. She is simple but classy.

10.She doesn’t chase after people
She knows that she deserves better, so she doesn’t waste her time and energy chasing after other people who are obviously not interested in her. She knows her value, so instead of chasing after others she focuses on making herself better.


11.Her life does not revolve around her Relationship
She has a lot going on in her life, so she doesn’t immerse herself completely into a relationship, she takes time to catch up with her friends and family just so that it doesn’t seem like her happiness depends on her relationship.

Are you a highly desirable woman?

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11 Simple Ways to Live a Happier Life




The most important thing is to enjoy your life-to be happy-it’s all that matters~ Audrey Hepburn

Happiness has to be created from within, because when you learn to be happy in the present you will be able to handle the setbacks that will come while searching for a better future. You will not be frustrated when things don’t turn out the way you want to because you have other sources of happiness that do not depend on your success.

Once you learn to be happy with what you have, your family, your health and your purpose in life then you will have no regrets. You will have lived your life to the fullest because you didn’t need a million-dollar car or house to live a fulfilled life.

 Here’s how to live a simple happy life;

1. Maintain a healthy lifestyle.
Regular exercise, eating healthy meals whilst drinking plenty of water will help you in maintaining a healthy weight, prevent chronic diseases and ultimately make you feel good about yourself. When you feel good in the inside, you will look good on the outside and be more confident.

2. Build and maintain strong relations with your Friends and Family
Friends and family form a support system that you can always count on during the hardest of times. It is therefore important for you to stay in touch and spend time with them as much as you can.

3. Read relevant books and set Realistic Goals
The importance of reading relevant books cannot be over emphasized. Read a book every day. Books have wisdom and knowledge which can help you improve and become creative in your own unique way. So read as much as you can but don’t forget to set realistic goals and focus on achieving them, this will give you a purpose in life.

4. Get out of your comfort zone
Life begins at the end of your comfort zone therefore do not be afraid to step out of it no matter how scared you are, because being scared is a sign that you are about to do something brave. So face your fears and dare to do that which you are afraid of and see just how good it feels. The worst that can happen is that you will learn from the experience whether good or bad

5. Avoid negative people
Surrounding yourself with negative people drains your energy. They literally just bring you down no matter how strong and positive you might think you are. It is best to avoid such people and be with the ones who make you feel like you can move mountains.

6. Commit to your personal improvement
Endeavour to be fully committed to your self-improvement journey. You might be slow but steady which is all that matters. Take one day at a time but make sure to be consistent and persistent

7. Get rid of your bad habits
It is not as easy as it sounds. Getting rid of bad habits and replacing them with good ones takes time but it’s totally worth it. At the end of the day you will be able to have good relationships with those who are around you.

8. Stay true to yourself
If you can’t change something change the way you think about it and most importantly accept that which you cannot change. Acknowledge your strengths and work on your weaknesses. This will give inner peace and contentment.

9. Take charge of your life
You always have a choice. You have the right to choose that which you feel is good/right for you. You can choose to decide not to let other people’s opinion of you cloud your judgement. You can choose to be happy by focusing on the good things in life. The list is endless. Make the right choice by taking charge of your life.

10. Develop a great morning routine
Try waking up early say 5:00 am, Stretch and exercise for a few minutes. Instead of looking at your emails and worrying about how the day will be, be grateful for everything that has worked out so far. Read something motivational or meditate then get ready for work. This routine works wonders at least it has for me.

11. Don’t be too hard on yourself.
Finally, don’t be too hard on yourself let things flow naturally the way they should. Take the much-needed breaks. Do not be so fixated on something so much so that you become desperate and miserable. Hope for the best and learn to let go sometimes especially when you have done all that you are required to do.
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Thursday, 25 August 2016

Quote Of The Day

The only person you should try to be better than,is the person you were yesterday~Anonymous
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Quote of The Day

No matter how you feel; Get up,Dress up,Show up and NEVER give up.
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How To Get Over Failure And Stand Up Again




“I've missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed."~ Michael Jordan

Michael Jordan is the greatest Basketball player of all times. He failed so many times before he became successful. But the bottom line is that he became successful in the end.

Most of us have the wrong mentality about success. We assume that it’s supposed to be easy, without obstacles, without disappointments and setbacks but that’s not possible. The truth is success takes passion, patience and persistence.

Michael must have gone to bed feeling so bad for the missed shots. I can’t imagine the devastation that comes with feeling like you have let other people down, especially when they trusted you.

He however woke up the next morning and trained harder just so that he can become better. His passion for basketball gave him the strength to keep going in the midst of failure. Otherwise he would have ended up to be an ordinary man, and not a legend. He would have become one of those people who stop trying because they think that life is unfair.

What would you have done?

Let me guess, you will start feeling sorry for yourself, then stop trying. You will think that life is unfair to you or maybe you have bad luck. Ultimately you will leave it all together then settle for mediocrity.

Do you really want to be successful? Then;

1.Don’t quit
Most people fail because they give up in the face of failure, just before they succeed. But if you Keep trying no matter how many times you fail, you will definitely make it.

2.Learn from your mistakes
Always learn from your mistakes, don’t dwell on them just take the lesson and move on. What you learn from the previous failure is what will help you in the next attempt.

3.Stay positive
       Believe in the beauty of your dreams by staying positive and surrounding yourself with people who encourage you to achieve your goals

4.Find your passion
When you do what you love there is no amount of frustration that can make you give up on it. It’s that passion that will keep you from giving up whenever you fail.

Life doesn’t get easier, nor forgiving but the more times you fail, the more resilient you become and the closer you get to succeeding, so whatever you do don’t quit. 

You can cry about it, and feel as bad as you want to, but Keep doing it. Try to always do it better than before, be creative and most importantly learn from your mistakes.
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Wednesday, 24 August 2016

Quote Of The Day

LIFE is the most difficult exam.Many people fail BECAUSE they try to copy others ,not realizing that everyone has a different question paper~Anonymous
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Date Someone Who is Excited to Be with You





They say bad boys aint no good and good boys aint no fun, and like every other girl I usually find myself falling for the bad ones. The ones who are emotionally unavailable; the ones with the big ego; the ones who think are too good to love and appreciate someone else. The ones who are not as excited to be with you as much as you are excited to be with them.
 
I once dated this guy. He was so proud, insecure, unreasonable, immature and well, the list is endless. Deep down I knew he was bad for me but for some reason that I can’t really comprehend I stuck around and it wasn’t pretty. Just an endless cycle of Drama that sucked the energy right out of me.

I believe we get into relationships for many reasons other than love. For me I think it’s because I don’t really have that many friends so I go into relationships hoping that they will fill that gap, or maybe it’s because I don’t get to be with my family most of the time, so it gets pretty lonely.

You then find yourself into these messy relationships where you are not appreciated as you ought to or you are taken for granted or better yet you work too hard to be loved by someone.

The saddest thing is that we always see the damn signs but we choose to ignore because you settle. You settle for less than what you deserve because the voice in the back of your head keeps telling you that you will change them, that love will change them but it doesn’t. 

The love becomes draining and tiresome, because you are the only one who is trying to keep it together.

Then months pass by, they ignore your texts and calls with the excuse that they are busy, so you tell yourself to stop being petty and that you should understand even though you know that no one is ever that busy.
Maybe they treat you nicely when he is around then goes missing for days, then you think you are too needy. Or he flirts with you when you are together then treats you totally differently before other people, and still you just think that it’s his nature. 

Well I hate to break it to you but it’s not, they are just not that into and you need to get over it. If that wasn’t the case they would be there for you as much as you are for them.

If you don’t want to end up full of resentment, anger and frustrations, then you need to;

#1. Respect yourself
You have to respect yourself enough to walk away from a relationship that is obviously not working, you can’t force people into loving or being with you, accept it and move one. You are better off alone anyway.

#2. Listen to your gut
There that feeling inside you that will always tell you when something is not right. Trust it. And stop wasting your time with someone who doesn’t see just how amazing you are.

#3. Love yourself first
You cannot love someone else if you don’t love yourself first. And if you did love yourself then you would walk away from an abusive relationship and never look back because there are other people who love you for you, effortlessly.

#4. You deserve better
If you knew just how amazing you are you would know when to say No, especially when it’s clear that the other someone is not putting any effort into your relationship.

#5. Work on self-improvement
If you have been rejected before don’t give up just work on improving yourself, change your wardrobe, start working out and eating healthy. Be better, feel better and you will meet the right people.

#6. Don’t settle
Don’t get into a bad relationship just because you think there’s no one better. There is someone for everyone, be patient. Don’t settle for less.

I loved myself enough to walk away because as much as I wanted to be loved, the frustrations that came with being with someone who wasn’t into me, was not worth it.

Don’t overlook these small red flags in the hope that things will change or he is just human or you think you are being petty, there is only so much you can take.

If you are a great person and you know it, don’t compromise, don’t settle for less, and don’t think that he/she is the best you have ever had because she is not. Just Accept that he/she is not good for you and move on before it’s too late. #Life lessons

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